Confidence is the believing in yourself and your abilities.
The people who have confidence tend to successfully achieve their goals.
Confidence not only helps to achieve your goal but also helps to live your life on your own terms.
Self- confident people are admired by other and inspire confidence in others.
If you are one who aspires to be successful and wants to be admired by others and inspire confidence in others but doesn’t know how to, then
Here are Twelve tips which you can implement in your life to build your confidence.
First of all, analyze yourself and know positive and negative traits about yourself.
Take a journal and write down all your positive and negative traits in it.
Positive traits will make you confident about yourself & your negative traits will help you to take action and change them.
2.Focus On Solution:
It is rightly said by someone that you get what you focus on.
Focusing on the problem will only make the problem bigger and you will start feeling depressed. So instead of focusing on
problems focus on the solution, it will help you get the solution and will help you to feel more confident about yourself.
And this is also primary reason behind the success of many successful people.
3.Always be prepared:
It is hard to be confident about yourself if you don’t think you will not do best at something.
Whatever situation you are in life be it exams, interview, office presentation etc.
Always be prepared, learn essential skills, be updated about the topic.
A person who speaks quickly feels he isn’t worth listening hence is not confident about himself.
To project confidence is about speaking clearly and confidently. A person in authority, with authority, speaks slow and clearly.
5.Set Small Goals And Achieve It:
“I don’t look to jump over seven-foot bars: I look around for one- foot bars that I can step over.”
Warren Buffet (American business magnate, Investor, and Philanthropist)
As this quotes by Warren Buffet says don’t look after achieving big goals and then underestimate yourself when you are not able to achieve it instead successfully achieve sets of small goals which will eventually help you to achieve your biggest goal without losing the enthusiasm.
6.Exercise at least four days a week:
Exercise is one of the most empowering activities.
As exercise helps you to stay fit and feel much better about yourself.
And if you don’t feel better about yourself it will indirectly affect your self- confidence.
You can rarely see someone with good posture lacking in confidence.
Sitting up straight can not only make you feel taller and slimmer.
Taking time to improve the posture can also improve your mood and energy levels.
Doing good for others provides a natural sense of accomplishment and which indirectly provide a healthy boost to your self-confidence, self-esteem, and life-satisfaction.
When you feel better about yourself you are more likely to have a positive view of your life and about your future.
People who read books regularly for pleasure have the greater level of self-esteem, are less stressed and can cope better with difficult situations than non-reader is found by new research by galaxy quick reads.
Self-Discipline is a vital characteristic of successful people.
Self-discipline helps you to stay on control action and make sure you to stay on track.
Self-discipline boosts your self-esteem which helps you to feel more confident about yourself.
11.Try New Thing:
“If you double the number of experiment you do per year you’re going to double your inventiveness.” Jeff Bezos (CEO Amazon).
As the quote by the Jeff Bezos says trying new things and experimenting helps you to get known about different things you are at capable rather than always trying to be in your comfort zone.
Knowing that you are capable of more thing than your comfort zone is the major boost to your self- confidence.
12.Don’t Underestimate Yourself:
Always remember that all people are born equal only thing that makes some people successful is that they always analyze themselves and change themselves and achieve goals rather than just having obsessing about other successful people.
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